OOOO wrote:я не знаю как Вы, но если бы я был поставлен перед необходимостью жить жизнь по Thinker-у, я бы застрелился.
Прилагательное "убожество" даже не начинает описывать гамму чувств, вызываемую во мне его крестьянскими ценностями.
Мне кажется убожество жить в стране, где человеку ненавистно буквально все местное: культура, быт, работа, машины, стандарты, техника, еда, люди, их диалект, президент, медицина, религия, крестьяне. You name it!
OOOO wrote:Живёте один раз. Второго раза не будет. Я глубоко убеждён что надо позволять себе вещи именно тогда когда хочется а не потом.
What is MATURITY? So what makes you MATURE??
PATIENCE - (To Delay Gratification is the FIRST sign of MATURITY)
A BABY has to have everything .. NOW ! !
http://members.aol.com/RWF777/heart/1-9-00.html
The difference between a mature and immature person is in the ability to put off gratification to avoid unwanted consequences. The mature person can look ahead in time and make decisions now based on the perceived eventualities. The immature person wants gratification now, even if it messes up tomorrow or next year.
http://www.rmcrob.com/archives/00000069.html
SYMPTOMS OF EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY
3. Stimulation Hunger
This includes demanding immediate attention or gratification and being unable to wait for anything. Stimulation hungry people are incapable of deferred gratification, which means putting off present desires in order to gain a future reward.
http://www.betteryou.com/maturity.htm
The ability to wait for rewards is a classic characteristic of anyone who is going to be successful. In fact, psychologists have identified this ability as the key indicator of a child’s future success. Because rewards do not always come instantly, people who learn to work hard, or invest their time and wait for payment, recognition, or some other form of 'gratification' are the ones who will achieve the most in life.
http://www.elderlawanswers.com/members/ ... icleid=491
According to Freud, the energy not released from this frustrating experience becomes invested in a new personality structure, the ego. Socialization, then, is the delay of gratification that leads to the acceptance of social expectations and sanctions (don't mess other people's clothes). In this way the ego processes are adaptive processes--adaptive to the constraints of culture. While the id operates on the pleasure principle, the ego operates on the reality principle. In this theoretical framework, the ability to delay gratification appropriately is considered a central sign of maturity.
http://frontpage.uwsuper.edu/psychology/delayofg.htm
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